Signs of the Times - Do Sadomasochistic Acts Constitute Sex?
Aug 1998
Sexual Behavior: Do Sadomasochistic Acts Constitute Sex?
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"A dominatrix charged with operating a common bawdy house testified yesterday about the path that led her to make spanking and humiliation her stock in trade. Terr-Jean Bedford said she was neglected and malnourished when she was taken from her parents in Collingwood, Ont., at the age of six and began a series of turbulent stints in foster homes and reform schools. She said she was sexually abused by a stepbrother from the age of eight, and became a promiscuous adolescent who drifted into prostitution and drug addiction by 16 (Hollie Shaw, Newmarket, Ontario, The Globe and Mail, August 1, 1998).
 
"'I really don't like prostitution at all,' said Ms. Bedford, who pleaded guilty to a charge of prostitution in 1988 and to two other charges in 1990 and 1991 arising from her work in massage parlours. She said that when she began to work out of her home as a paid dominatrix in 1993, it helped her healing process as a survivor of sexual abuse. 'It makes me feel powerful,' she told the court. 'It makes me feel beautiful. Men exalt me as a goddess'" (Hollie Shaw, Newmarket, Ontario, The Globe and Mail, August 1, 1998).
 
"A crucial issue at her trial is whether sadomasochistic acts constitute sex, but she said customers were not allowed to have sex at her nine-room bungalow in suburban Thornhill. The women in her employ, called 'mistresses,' were not allowed to have intercourse, oral sex or masturbate clients, and touched clients' testicles only to tie them up for bondage rituals, Ms. Bedford said" (Hollie Shaw, Newmarket, Ontario, The Globe and Mail, August 1, 1998).
 
"She also described the theatrical element of sadomasochistic scenarios, for which clients would pay up to $300 an hour. Reading from a checklist of such games, defence lawyer Alan Young inquired about 'equestrian training.' 'We dress them up like little ponies and put a bit in their mouth, ride around on their backs and make them jump over obstacles,' Ms. Bedford explained. At her home, which was divided into several theme rooms, Ms. Bedford also gave instruction in 'feminization' for cross-dressers: how to walk in high heels, serve tea and dust furniture" (Hollie Shaw, Newmarket, Ontario, The Globe and Mail, August 1, 1998).
 
"The trial, which was originally expected to wrap up yesterday, continues Aug. 20 and is expected to last two more days" (Hollie Shaw, Newmarket, Ontario, The Globe and Mail, August 1, 1998).
 

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